The Worst Mistakes Guys Make When Texting Ladies

The Worst Mistakes Guys Make When Texting Ladies
by Charlie Badderly

It is so annoying when you meet a girl and think things are going great. A few texts later, and she’s disappeared and has fizzled out. Her loss right? But maybe she wasn’t into you because your game is off. Read on to find out some easy ways to sharpen your game, so she’ll be begging for more.

Texting Mistake Number 1:

The first mistake is confusing any responses for attraction. Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t feel much of a connection to you. Unfortunately, you’re probably not the only guy texting her. A common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.

Think the opposite from what everyone else is telling you – the more messages you send, the smaller the chance she turns up on the date. And those messages your getting back are probably her just being nice and polite.

The key in your game is to always say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text, work out how to say it simpler, with less words. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, ‘How’s your day going?’ or ‘Hey, enjoying the warm weather?.’ These texts do not work at bringing you any closer to a girl. In fact, all they do is just just beg for a meaningless response. Ensure you never again waste texts and messages to her on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question- ‘How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?.’ If your answer is simply ‘to get her to know her better,’ stop where you are and just delete that message because it’s not going to help you.

Mistake Number 2: Not Conveying That You Are Fun

Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun. – Am I being stiff and formal “Hi. It was nice meeting you Friday”…. (too stiff. too formal) – Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going? – Am I badering her with question? Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.

Mistake Number 3: Not Having a Unique Texting Style

Lets face facts, if she is getting lots of messages from other guys and other people, don’t let yours seem bland and boring like everyone else. She should be able to tell the messages are from you just from your lauguage and style of text.

Mistake Number 4 Having Long Text Conversations

If you think that texting conversations are the same as normal conversations, this could be seriously affecting your game.Testing needs to be show you as a super cool guys who just communicates in cliff notes of a normal converstation. Leave out formalities which are boring. The longer the texting goes on for the more chance you have to mess things up and start going down the boring road. Every time you contact a lady, start with the good stuff and keep it short and sweet.

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Creative Writing For Kids, A Great Endeavour!

Creative Writing For Kids, A Great Endeavour!
by Rui Lim

If you are one of the many parents who are seeking ways of helping your kids learn creative writing, and want them to enjoy writing, you are not alone! Writing is an essential life-skill and creative writing in personal letter, blog or research paper form can help students in all aspects of their lives.

creative writing for kidsThere are various incentives parents can use to encourage creative writing for kids and one of them is with regard to their particular interests and everyday lives – a daily journal! The main point is to guide them into a creative writing habit and therefore, it is not important what their creative writing relates to, provided they are writing something! A daily journal should not concentrate too much on grammar, punctuation and spelling, which can be introduced at a later stage.

The criteria at this stage of creative writing are to stimulate a flow of thought and ideas, as well as allowing kids to enjoy themselves while writing. As they start with creative writing the imagination will be activated as woould an awareness of self expression. It becomes their personal world, and with this creative writing is a means of release for kids’ frustrations and conflicts. Children can become lost in themselves while writing, and this form of creative writing should become a regular exercise. You could even use this as a method of self-imposing their particular ambitions and goals in life!

Various research conducted has shown that for many children, especially boys, the concept of creative writing does not produce any degree of enthusiastic response. It is therefore essential that they are motivated to appreciate the value of what they have written and that it is their own creation. Creative writing for kids can be a means of freedom and release that is not yet influenced by the turbulence of adulthood. This is a stage of their lives where their imagination and inherent creative writing abilities can be brought to the forefront.

With correct guidance in creative writing, kids can transfer their imagination into the creative sphere. It is also means of introducing them to the process of logical thinking, as well as providing them with a valuable learning and communication tool. Various studies conducted revealed that those who have been exposed to creative writing at an early stage, have a tendency to excel in a wide variety of professions.

These professions, it was discovered, generally involve expression and imagination. In addition, those who have experienced creative writing as kids tend to achieve an enhanced academic record, in subjects that again relate to capabilities in expression. Encouraging creative writing in kids has in many cases resulted in extraordinary surprises. Children are frequently amazing and original storytellers, because they do not fear failure or ridicule of their work. Their creative writing is full of expression and uninhibited, because of the lack of preconceived notions.

Creative writing for kids is an adventure for everyone concerned and is something that can lead to amazing developments in the future!

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Motivational Writing: Michelle Obama Raps Up Child Obesity

Healthy Motivation: “You’ve Got to Eat Right; You’ve Got to Work Hard”

Michelle Obama is using motivational writing in a hip-hop album release to combat childhood obesity. The 19 track CD, “Songs for a Healthier America“, is part of the Let’s Move program Michelle started last year.

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Since When Are You a Writer? Reality TV Stars Take to the Blog

The Blog is Now Available in Fabulous Red Carpet Style

The blog is the new reality TV stars’ medium for drama.  Gone is the age when our reality TV stars could only embarrass themselves on the tube.  These days, many networks are also giving them a chance to have the last word on their own blogs.  Where as in the past, the best drama was played out in our living rooms, the juiciest these days seems to come from the blogging back lash after each episode airs.  It’s a perpetual he said/she said of rumors and everyone’s a critic.Bravo TV’s notorious “Real Housewives” brand takes home the blue ribbon in this category.  As soon as the episode credits roll I start to twitch with anticipation.  The blogs are like a drug and it’s interesting to see the different levels and styles of writing from these “business” women.  Some offer quite formidable debate whereas others use it as their own personal place to whine.  The reality TV star blogs are also a great sounding board for the viewers and allows them a way to connect with the stars of the show.

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